My Approach
Therapy with me is relational, curious, and grounded in the belief that you are not broken — you're responding to things that happened to you.
My style is warm and direct, with humor woven in naturally. You'll feel supported here. You'll also be gently challenged — because real change doesn't happen by talking around the hard stuff, it happens by finally being able to sit with it.
I work at the level of the nervous system, not just the narrative. That means we're not just talking about what happened — we're working with how it still lives in your body, your reactions, and the patterns that formed to keep you safe.
The Pillars of Our Work
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Understanding What’s Going On Inside
Most people have different sides of themselves that show up in different moments — a part that overthinks everything, another that pushes through exhaustion, another that wants to avoid hard feelings altogether. None of these parts are bad. They developed to protect you, often a long time ago.
In our work together we slow down and get curious about these parts — where they came from, what they're trying to do, and what they need now. This is the heart of Internal Family Systems (IFS), and over time it often leads to feeling less at war with yourself and more grounded in who you actually are.
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Building New Patterns in Real Life and Relationships
Healing doesn't stay in the therapy room. We'll pay attention to how old patterns show up in your relationships and daily life — the difficulty setting limits, the pull to people-please, the habit of putting everyone else first. And we'll work on practical, sustainable shifts that help you respond differently, make choices aligned with your values, and carry what you're learning into your everyday life.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps you get clear on what genuinely matters to you, and practice moving toward that even when anxiety, self-doubt, or old patterns get in the way. It's not about eliminating difficult thoughts and feelings — it's about learning to carry them differently so they stop running the show.
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Processing What's Still Unfinished
Sometimes insight isn't enough. You can understand exactly why you react the way you do and still feel stuck — because the experience lives in your nervous system, not just your mind.
Eye-Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) helps the brain process painful or overwhelming experiences that didn't get fully integrated at the time. It's particularly effective for complex trauma and childhood experiences, and many clients find it moves them further than years of talk therapy alone.